I don't think writing's going to work well here, although IRC is a different animal.
Honestly, it's asking a bit much to expect people to recognize in textual form what they actually want. :P
F.ex. youuuuu need more faults in your 'looking for.' That probably wouldn't be a bad way of writing an ad actually. "Willing to put up with minor gaming and/or sports addiction in exchange for recognition of and compensation for same. Non-debilitating awkwardness acceptable. Etc. Etc."