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: it's a great life, if you don't weaken (matociquala) wrote,
2013-06-30 22:54:00

it's a great life, if you don't weaken
matociquala
2013-06-30 22:54:00

Mood: irate

This is just to say:

To everybody who has opined recently that sexual harassment policies at conventions mean an end to flirtation, dating, and romance at cons--

I'm involved in a relationship with somebody I met, befriended, and grew to love largely at conventions. He never once felt the need to grope me, make an inappropriate comment on my body or dress, or ask if anything I was wearing was meant as a coded sexual message before the moment when we figured out that we were each interested in one another in a romantic sense.

Neither flirting nor building emotional connection is harassment, folks--and harassment is not flirting.

It's not actually all that complicated.

Tags: collective action, fandom, that boy i like

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This is just to say:

i only hear the singing

sometimes you've got to put your shoulder to the door

just a pinch between your cheek and gum

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i only hear the singing

sometimes you've got to put your shoulder to the door

just a pinch between your cheek and gum